Feeling anxious about sharing the news of your unplanned pregnancy is natural, especially if you’re uncertain about people’s reactions. Before telling others, even your partner, confirm your pregnancy with free pregnancy services from a local pregnancy resource center. Then, learn more about your options.
Having the facts and a little extra support can make all the difference in breaking the news to others.
Have You Confirmed Your Pregnancy?
A late period and a positive pregnancy test may not be enough to determine if you are pregnant. Experts estimate that as many as 26% of all pregnancies end in a miscarriage. How do you learn if you have miscarried? By getting an ultrasound.
Christian Family Services networks with local pregnancy resource centers that offer free pregnancy services like ultrasounds. With an ultrasound, you will also learn how far along you are and if your pregnancy is in the correct location.
Do You Know You Have Options?
You have three options for your unplanned pregnancy: having an abortion, making an adoption plan, or parenting. Once you’ve confirmed your pregnancy, learning more about each option can help determine how you want to move forward.
Have You Considered Making an Adoption Plan?
Having a plan in place may help if you are afraid to tell your partner about your pregnancy. Although choosing to place your child for adoption can be a difficult decision, it is a very loving choice. You and your partner receive many beneficial services.
For instance, Christian Family Services will help you with the following:
Free medical care
- Food and financial support
- Housing
- Transportation assistance
- Emotional guidance (before, during, and after the adoption)
- Pregnancy resources
- Free legal representation
As the expectant mother, you also can choose the adoptive couple and, ultimately, the future you want for your child. You can also determine how much, if any, communication you hope to have with the adoptive family as your child grows.
If you’re curious about what types of couples apply to adopt, take a look at our waiting families. Each one is eager to adopt and love your child.
We Care About Your Safety
If you are afraid to tell your partner about your pregnancy, you may not be in a safe relationship. Here are some steps for breaking the news to him carefully:
- Meet in a public place to have your discussion.
- Take a trusted friend or family member with you.
- Let your partner know you have verified your pregnancy.
- Let them know you have looked at all your options, including adoption.
- Do not let them dictate or pressure you to make one choice over another.
- Try to remain calm as you talk.
If you feel unsafe talking to your partner, reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at (800) 799-SAFE (7233).
Contact Our Nearest Location
We understand how difficult this time can be. If you would like to talk with someone at Christian Family Services, please fill out our confidential online Contact Form or call or text
the location nearest you. We will be happy to meet you and discuss the adoption option.
If you’re afraid, don’t face your partner alone. We’re here to help you. Contact us today!
