If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy and considering adoption, you’re probably full of questions. You might wonder what it’s like to have someone else raise your baby and what to expect emotionally after making an adoption decision.
While every woman and her emotional reaction to adoption will be different, there are certain factors to consider that will help you understand what adoption might look like in your life. Read on to learn more about these factors. Or, if you want to talk to someone in person about adoption, contact Christian Family Services to connect with one of our caring team members.
Things to Consider with Adoption
Adoption is full of options, and these choices will determine what adoption looks like for you. For example, you can decide if you want to communicate with the adoptive family and child, how often, and what type (in-person visits, phone calls, emails, etc.).
If you’re wondering what it’s like to have someone else raise your baby, knowing if and how often you want to communicate with the adoptive family and your child will play a huge role in answering this question.
For example, if you want to communicate with the adoptive family often, you will know what’s going on in the child’s life, and they will also learn details about you. For some women, this feels comforting because they want to be a part of the child’s life.
When you’re thinking about what adoption might look like for you and how you might respond emotionally, considering these questions can help:
- Do I want to communicate with the adoptive family and child? If so, how often?
- What might communication look like? (For example, do I want frequent updates about how the child is doing in school, sports, etc.? Do I want the child to know about me?)
- How do I feel when I imagine an adoptive family raising my baby?
While these questions can help you imagine what adoption might look like for you, it’s also extremely helpful to talk to someone who knows about the adoption process.
You’re Not Alone
Facing an unplanned pregnancy can feel isolating, but you’re not alone in this. At Christian Family Services, we’re here to answer your questions and help you feel supported as you explore adoption.
Contact us today to schedule a free, confidential appointment.
